Season 1 · Episode 7InterviewOctober 20, 2026

Life Unscripted, Not Yet on the Other Side

with Dr. Resma Byrne · Ed.D

About this episode

Dr. Resma Byrne knew she wanted to be a teacher when she was in fourth grade. She spent the next three decades climbing every rung of public education, from classroom teacher to administrator, director, assistant superintendent, and, finally, superintendent. Seven months later, that role was over. What followed was not the tidy pivot we usually hear about. There was grief she didn't feel allowed to say out loud. There was a new job that looked like landing, and a quiet voice inside her that kept saying it wasn't her true north. Now Resma is living in Tulum, Mexico, with her husband and children, in a season she calls "Life Unscripted." She doesn't know yet how it ends. Dr. Nicole and Resma talk about the difference between enduring a life and living it on purpose, what it costs to keep telling everyone you're fine, why a lifelong learner reached for a syllabus every time her life went sideways, and what it means to stop cleaning up the mess long enough to learn from it. Most transition stories are told once the ending is known. This one is told from the middle.

Show Notes

In this conversation • Why Resma went back to school every time her life went sideways, and what changed when there was no syllabus left to follow • The grief she felt she wasn't allowed to say out loud • Booking a flight to Paris with no reservations, three days after it ended • How each "I'm fine" took her a little further under the water • The difference between enduring and living with purpose • Running toward yourself, not away from your life • Bringing her children into the decision through family meetings • Why she is choosing to stay in the mess rather than clean it up Chapter 1 00:00:00 Introduction and Setting the Scene in Tulum Chapter 2 00:02:07 From Superintendent to Sabbatical Chapter 3 00:04:11 Becoming Superintendent: The Climb to the Top Chapter 4 00:07:40 High Achieving Patterns: School, Control, and Divorce Chapter 5 00:11:34 The Day the Role Ended Chapter 6 00:13:44 Fleeing to Paris: An Impulsive Escape Chapter 7 00:15:34 Public Story vs Private Struggle Chapter 8 00:19:03 Over-Functioning and Doggy Paddling Underwater Chapter 9 00:24:11 Endurance vs Purpose Chapter 10 00:26:23 What If It Hadn't Happened: The Midnight Library Chapter 11 00:28:51 Running Towards Yourself, Not Away Chapter 12 00:33:18 Living Inside the Chrysalis Chapter 13 00:37:35 Releasing Control and Embracing the Unscripted Life Chapter 14 00:41:46 North Star Shifting: Teaching in a New Way Chapter 15 00:43:38 Family Meetings and Bringing the Kids Along Chapter 16 00:47:12 Modeling Imperfection for Her Children Chapter 17 00:54:12 Advice: Follow Your Gut, Quiet the Noise, Live in the Mess Chapter 18 00:56:12 Closing Thoughts and Gratitude

Guest Links

  • instagram @thisismyraddicalsabbatical

Guest

Dr. Resma Byrne

Ed.D

Dr. Resma Byrne is an experienced educational leader with more than 30 years of service in education, spanning classroom teaching, school and district leadership, and higher education. Throughout her career, she has been guided by a simple belief: people thrive when they feel seen, heard, valued, and supported. Resma’s leadership is rooted in relationships, trust, compassion, and collaboration. She is passionate about creating inclusive environments where students can succeed, families feel connected, and educators are empowered to do their best work. She values honest communication, meaningful partnerships, and bringing people together around a shared commitment to students and their future. Beyond her professional life, family is at the heart of who Resma is. She is a proud mother of four, a wife, a daughter, a sister, and is excited to soon become a grandmother. These roles have shaped her just as deeply as her career and have strengthened her belief in the importance of connection, service, opportunity, and leaving a positive impact on the next generation. Leadership has never been simply about a title. It is about people, relationships, and helping others grow, succeed, and feel that they belong.

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